Professional Code of Ethics

This document stands to serve as my personal commitment to excellence, integrity, and mutual respect in professional practice.

Preamble

Providing time is an occupation that is greatly misunderstood, regularly stereotyped, and generally looked down upon by most of society. One who undertakes this as a primary profession or as an adjunct to another profession realises that as they expose the most personal of spaces to the client in exchange for financial or practical remuneration.

This close interaction requires a very high level of trust be established between the provider and the client, and I feel it is critical that my clients understand that they are dealing with someone who adheres to a strong professional code. In every engagement, I make it a point to be transparent, respectful, and accountable. I understand and acknowledge trust isn’t just assumed, but rather continually earned.

This code of ethics provides a clear framework that guides my decisions and ensures accountability in all aspects of my work.

I strive to accomplish the following goals:

Provide valuable, beneficial, safe, and enjoyable service to the client.
Ensure personal boundaries and health of either party are never compromised
In the event the client is unhappy, I promise to listen and do whatever I reasonably can to make the client happy before they leave the session.
Reflect positively upon the profession as a whole and help improve public perception of the profession whenever possible.
Maintain my dignity and integrity, and never compromise my own personal ethos in performing any of the above Voluntary subscription to a code of ethics has historically been one way to demonstrate the commitment to excellence in any profession. As I aim to strive towards excellence, having my own code of ethics is the next logical step in meeting that goal.

Assumption of Rights

I reserve the right to screen clients to my personal satisfaction and standards. I will always personally determine who I will see and who I will not see, and under what conditions.
I reserve the right to withdraw availability, pause engagement, or take time off without explanation or obligation.
I reserve the right to adjust my offerings, rates, or boundaries at any time, without justification beyond my own comfort or business needs.
I reserve the right to block, ignore, or disengage from communication at my discretion.
I reserve the right to set my own boundaries, and to have my clients respect them at all times. I reserve the right to end a session without refund if a client does not respect my boundaries.
I reserve the right to refuse to see a client if the client refuses to accept my personal boundaries or engages in behavior I deem unsafe, threatening, or illegal.
I reserve the right to determine how I use my personal attributes to make a living, and to be respected for the decisions that I make.
I reserve the right to serve only the clientele I am comfortable serving without judgement from clients or other providers.
I reserve the right to be treated as a human being, with full agency and all other rights due me - including the right to petition for redress under all relevant civil and criminal laws of my country at my own discretion.

Code of Ethics

General Conduct

I will enter and practice this profession of my own free will, under duress from no other party, while understanding the true nature of the work I'll be doing.
I am dedicated to delivering exceptional service while maintaining professional boundaries. Should any concerns arise during our time together, I will address them promptly and professionally within the scope of my comfort and safety.
I will respect my clients as human beings and not treat them as anything less than.
I will respect my clients' physical, emotional, professional, ethical, and spiritual boundaries. I am committed to disability inclusion and will make reasonable accommodations whenever possible.
I will respect my clients' right to privacy and not ask invasive questions.
I will never shame a client for their preferences, appearance, identity, or insecurities, so long as they remain respectful and within ethical bounds.
I will always arrive well rested, emotionally present, and prepared to offer focused, high quality attention to each session.
I maintain clear emotional boundaries with clients - especially in long term dynamics - while allowing them space to explore romantic or limerent feelings within safe limits.
I will not create or operate under multiple identities or personas across platforms.
I will maintain and improve professional knowledge and competence, striving for excellence through regular assessment of personal and professional strengths and weaknesses, and through continued education and training.
I will not discuss other clients or providers.
I only collaborate with other providers who share similar values and ethical standards.

Business Practices

My email practices are secure and the content of our emails will always be professional in nature.
I will not use bait and switch tactics to lure clients under false assumptions or pretenses.
I will not advertise as an unrealistic age or weight for my visual appearance. If my photos do not accurately represent me, I will not use them.
I will respect my client's confidentiality, and not, under any circumstances, divulge the names or other identifying features of my clients.
Any personally identifying information shared for screening purposes is treated with strict confidentiality, used only for safety verification, and never stored digitally.
I will only give reference information to legitimate providers who I do my due diligence to verify upon a client's request. No request, no reference.
I will not defraud or cheat a client in any way.
I will advertise myself honestly and not misrepresent what I am prepared to do or the skills that I have.
I will plainly state my expectations on my web site(s) and not engage in unfair attempts to upcharge or upsell clients. The price listed on the website is the price the client can expect to pay.
I will not submit false information about clients to blacklists and similar reporting venues.
I do not maintain post session contact beyond what is necessary for rebooking or professional follow up.
I do not pressure or guilt clients into financial gestures beyond agreed upon terms. Tipping is never expected, but always appreciated.
I will never create false urgency, scarcity, or emotional leverage to manipulate client spending or loyalty.
I will never falsely advertise availability, status, or location to drive interaction or traffic.
I do not tolerate manipulative tactics such as negging, testing boundaries, or repeatedly revisiting declined requests.
I do not engage in fake demand tactics (e.g., fake "booked out" notices or countdowns).
I do not permit third party booking on behalf of clients, even spouses.
While I offer compassion and a listening ear, I am not a licensed therapist and will not present myself as one.
I will recognise that there is a wide variance in acceptable behaviour and identity, strive to accept those variations in my clients, and accommodate those variances when they do not conflict with my own personal ethos or skill levels.

Safety and Health

I will use appropriate safe practices at all times.
I will not knowingly practice my trade with any illness or infection.
I do not engage in high risk activities that could compromise my safety or long term well being.
I will take precautions in my personal life recommended to me by my primary care physician to avoid becoming infected with illness whenever possible.
I will not entertain clients if I am physically or emotionally impaired to the point where I cannot ensure my safety, the safety of my client, and meet my client's expectations.
I will not entertain clients if I am unable to provide a top tier experience.
I will always be well rested, emotionally present, and fully prepared to give my client the best version of myself.
I will not entertain clients who openly engage in illegal activities, nor will I engage in illegal activities with clients.
I maintain rigorous sexual health protocols under medical supervision, including appropriate prophylactic treatments as recommended by my physician.
I maintain complete sobriety during professional engagements, with the sole exception of a celebratory drink in a controlled environment when mutually desired.
I abstain from all recreational substances and maintain a smoke/vape free environment.
I will not be "on" anything (i.e. microdosing)

Operational Security

Privacy & Data

I do not store any data beyond what is strictly necessary to facilitate screening and meeting, and all such data is securely discarded as soon as it is no longer needed.
I will use best practices at all times when it comes to communication and data handling.
No client data is used to build behavioral profiles, mailing lists, or engagement funnels of any kind.
I do not carry a smartphone, but periodically use a wifi tablet. All location services, data leaking features, and app trackers are turned off.
I will only use encrypted means of communication.
I will use a VPN at all times, even when doing banal internet activities.
I will delete all other information about the client except email address after a successful visit.
I will not store client information on "the cloud" or any type of local file (i.e. spreadsheet, notes file).
I will not take any photos during the encounter that could possibly dox the client.
I am well versed in the needs of high profile/HNWIs and am happy to sign an NDA.
I believe in “opt in” not “opt out” and will never initiate unsolicited contact with clients, respecting boundaries between professional and personal spheres.
I will never cold call a client with my touring schedule or requests for monetary assistance.
I do not solicit or post client reviews or testimonials, as I prioritize discretion and client privacy above promotion.
Electronic payments are billed extremely discreetly and pseudonymous payments via crypto and other means are always available.

Digital Continuity

I have a trusted and confidential continuity plan in place to protect client privacy and professional integrity in the event of an emergency or incapacitation.
Access to critical accounts is limited to one trusted party bound by confidentiality and legal restriction.
No automated systems will continue to operate under my identity in the event of my unavailability.
No one will communicate, post, or act on my behalf without prior consent and clear, prearranged instruction.
Any data related to individuals other than myself will be securely and permanently destroyed in a non recoverable manner.
All professional digital assets are secured with appropriate access controls and encryption.
My continuity plan is reviewed and updated regularly to reflect changes in security best practices.

LLM Use & Representation

Photo Representation

No synthetic likenesses or AI generated photos passed off as real photos .
No photos that are overly and unrealistically retouched beyond the normal standard of photography.
No use of another person’s features, body, or identity in any image or composite.
No face swapping, body morphing, or AI blending techniques.

Text & Automation

No use of AI to impersonate or mislead.
No use of chatbot/chatters.
No outsourced sexting, DMs, or fan interactions.
No ghostwriting or third party management of personal messaging.
No use of AI to simulate emotional intimacy or conversation.
No templated responses passed off as real time communication.
LLM use is restricted to proofreading human written content, fixing errors in code, SEO copy, and being "a second set of eyes".
No automation beyond basic email autoresponders.

Respect for the Profession

I will not advocate or condone anything non consensual/involuntary or anything involving minors, and will report the existence of such behavior to appropriate authorities immediately should I discover it.
I do not attempt to recruit, convert, or persuade others into this work for personal gain.
I do not hustle referrals or push others into this work for personal profit under the guise of mentorship. I only share referral codes when directly requested.
I categorically reject all forms of coercion, blackmail, or reputation based extortion in professional dealings.
I maintain professional discretion and refrain from public disputes, intervening only when serious safety or criminal concerns arise.
I will not take advantage of or manipulate clients or other providers in any way for personal gain, nor do I advocate or condone this behavior.
I will not sell my reference or provide any kind of references for clients I did not actually see, nor do I advocate or condone this behavior.
I will not sell any of my verified advertising accounts upon exiting the industry.
I will not knowingly platform or collaborate with individuals who exploit, traffic, or harm others in this profession.
I will not copy or co opt another provider's branding, persona, or identity. I respect the intellectual and personal property of my peers.
I do not judge other providers for who they choose to see or not see.
I do not judge other providers for how they spend their money, or what gifts they receive.
I do not judge how other providers run their business or how much they charge.
I do not judge other providers for what they do or do not offer.
I do not engage in sabotage, harassment, or smear campaigns against other providers - online or off.
I will not feign friendship or solidarity to extract information or gain competitive advantage.
I do not present myself as an authority on topics I have no direct experience with.
I will never use another provider’s trauma, reputation, or personal history as leverage in any context.
If asked, I will provide honest, legitimate advice and information to those who inquire about working in this profession, including on the topic of finances.
I strive to be a lady, and will conduct myself as such at all times.
I am honest, sincere, professional, and value discretion above all else. This document represents my personal commitment to ethical professional practice.

Last updated: 03 August 2025